~Speaking Engagements~

If you're interested in inviting me to speak at a conference, an event, or even a private party, email me at 31datesin31days(at) for pricing and scheduling.

~One-on-One Coaching and Consultations~

*Are you looking for a big change in your love life?
*Do you feel like you've been successful in lots of areas in your life - but you can't figure out the secret to success when it comes to dating and romance?
*Are you just getting back into the dating game and have no idea what to do?
*Or do you feel off track navigating your way through romance?

My clients are typically looking for the same thing I was looking for - CHANGE. Whatever they've been doing just isn't working and they need something different. Maybe it's some tweaking to their dating profile, or maybe it's finding a new crop of people to date, or maybe it's giving the relationship they have a little boost. I've been there and have made the journey from "mess" to "success." You probably are not in nearly as bad of shape as I was, but you might still be looking for something different. I'm here to help.

As a certified life and relationship coach, offer one-on-one dating and relationship consulting, giving each client a personalized program. My packages are catered to the most common inquiries I receive. If your needs are different than those listed, contact me and we'll outline a program that works best.

The "Jump Start Your Heart" Package 
Want some quick, personalized tips to get you back into the dating game?
*We will meet (via phone) for a one-hour session to target specific steps for improving your love life
*Plus you get an online dating profile consultation and edit 
Jump Start Your Heart for $85                                                                  

Dating Boot Camp
What's holding you back from hosting your own dating challenge? Have you thought about taking on 31 Dates in 31 Days? Or how about just five dates in five days?
Still too scary? How about starting with just ONE date that's different than what you're used to?
You've heard of speed dating. Welcome to endurance dating.
Dating Boot Camp is based on my dating project, 31 Dates in 31 Days. It focuses on first dates, setting aside old mindsets, meeting new people and experiencing new adventures in your city. While you can book your calendar for all 31 dates, you might only have time for a mini version, such as five dates in five days or 10 dates in two weeks.
My biggest suggestion: if you think you can only do three dates in three days, push further. Shoot for a higher number of dates than you're thinking AND try to clump them closer together. There are a slew of reasons for this, which I explain further in my book.
*I'll send you a FREE copy of my 31 Dates in 31 Days "Dating Boot Camp" Starter Kit. It'll help you organize your project, answer some of your questions, find dates, and will keep you focused.
*Once you're ready, we'll meet (via Skype or phone) for an hour consultation
*Then we'll set up the first steps to producing your own project, including date ideas and discerning the best approaches for you to find people to fill your calendar
*We'll schedule three additional hour-long coaching sessions throughout your Dating Challenge
*I'll be hear as your coach and seasoned-professional through your journey
Me, begging for dates
You might be thinking, How will I get THAT many people to go out with me?
This is the most common question I hear. I asked myself the same question throughout my project. In fact, that picture on the left is of me holding up an "Available?" sign right as I kicked off my 31 Dates in 31 Days in New York City.

I promise I won't let you get to the point of begging for dates on the street. But I do promise that if you commit to the project, your calendar will fill. So how will you find people to accompany you on those empty nights? I will help you discover the secrets to getting dates.

I've had dozens of clients take on this dating challenge and every one has said it's been worth it.
Just check out the testimonials below!
Become a Daring Dater for $265                     
You can also see how I changed my own love life by buying my book, 31 Dates in 31 Days. 

  Email me, tell me a little about yourself, and let's get started.
Congrats on your next adventure. Happy Dating!
~ Tamara
Testimonials from Daring Daters who've taken on Dating Boot Camp:

"It worked!!! I am getting married to #31!! Thank you so much giving me the idea! You will forever be part of our "meeting story" and I am so appreciative!.... I would do this again, hands down!! It’s a once in a lifetime opportunity, and I would suggest anyone to do it!!"
Janelle, Las Vegas

"Date #1 was great! Seriously I can't believe the difference! Reading your book has changed my dating world."

Laura, Seattle

"I’ve become more comfortable dating. Just going on a lot of dates makes it simple and takes away a lot of the anxiety that I’ve experienced in the past. That in turn makes it more comfortable for [the girls] as well."
Marcus, New York City

"I would DEFINITELY do it again. I went out with 25 amazing guys and had a great time with every single one of them."
Bek, Salt Lake City